Using Multiple Dating Sites For Great Results
Who said you had to use just one site at once?
One of our best tips for men who want to maximize their success on dating services is to use multiple sites at once. This does seem like a lot of work, but the payoff makes it very worth it.
You’ll pick the women YOU want, not the other way around.
Everyone knows there are more men than women on dating services. By joining many of them at the same time, you’ll be able to have your pick of the women you want instead of them always having their pick of you.
This is a great way to even out the mathematical advantage. The ratio of women to men sucks, but look at it this way. Most women only use one website at once. If you’re using more than one website, you drastically increase the amount of women you meet—as well as the amount of women who meet you.
Don’t force yourself to impress.
There’s a tendency in a lot of men to try and be what every woman they meet is looking for, and that’s not nearly as good at getting these guys dates as they hope it will be.
One reason for this is the fact that you’re not being authentic or genuine when you do this. If you’re not being a version of yourself you like being (a particularly desperate version), then you’re going to really hate the kind of women you’re attracting.
If you don’t think a woman is worth your time, don’t contact her. You don’t always need to be the one on display.
It’s okay not to return her emails.
We’re so conditioned as men to believe that we have to go whatever woman will have us that we often aren’t as picky as we want to be. It’s really fine to be picky, we promise.
The kind of girl you want to meet is someone that will stand out to you right away—you’ll never DREAM of not returning her email. Until you meet her, feel free to be as picky as you want. You’re never going to be satisfied with what you really don’t want.