“He is lucky! Isn’t he?”

While taking part in a threesome isn’t every guy’s dream, it’s damn close to being that way. Come on, how is it not the perfect fantasy? Instead of sleeping with one chick, you’re doing two, and if that’s not awesome, we don’t know what is. A threesome just might be the perfect sexual experience, but unfortunately it’s not an occurrence that happens frequently and at random. In order to land a threesome you need to pull out some expert moves, and we’ve compiled a list of tips to help you on your quest to sleeping with more than woman at a time.

Adjust Your Expectations

Like we said, most people think threesomes would be the ultimate sexual encounter, and by most people, we mean men. The first thing you need to realize is that threesomes aren’t for everyone. While it would be nice if all women were sexually adventurous, that just isn’t the case. So when you’re trying to set up a threesome, keep in mind that what you find titillating and very arousing might just frighten some women away.

Be Tactful

If you’re in a relationship with a woman and she’s been somewhat receptive to the idea of bringing another woman into the bed, it’s important to tread carefully. In a relationship situation there are feelings involved and if you want to keep your relationship, it would be best not to seem too overeager. If she starts thinking that you’re more attracted sexually to the new woman, it’s not going to go over well. Explain to her that she’s the one you want most, the one you care for, and the one you’ll be staying with after the threesome is over. You want to alleviate her fears as much as you can so that she feels confident going into the arrangement.

Talk It Out

“Make sure no woman feels jealous of the other”

Unless you’re hopping into bed with two women who are perfect strangers to you and each other, talking about a threesome is a must. This is especially true if your partner is expressing uncertainty. It’s important to establish parameters, particularly if there’s something one of the participants doesn’t want to do, such as anything even remotely related to BDSM. Talking about the threesome and why you all want to try it can actually be helpful. You can learn what your partners would like and you can express to them what you’d like in turn.

Avoid Attachment

To avoid the explosive and awkward aftermath that sometimes happens in the wake of threesomes, it’s important to ensure that the third party is someone that neither you nor your partner has feelings for. As much as you try to keep sex as just sex, emotions often get involved. This is why it’s a really bad idea to invite your ex into the sack with you and your current partner. It’s also a bad idea to have a threesome with a woman you know is attracted to you or one that you’ve been secretly lusting after. You want this to be an unforgettable, mind-blowing experience, and once emotions get involved, it’s going to turn messy.