“She has the power”

If your sex life is falling by the wayside, then it’s time to spice things up in the bedroom. After you’ve been with your girlfriend for a while, it’s a good idea to start bringing up any kinks that you might have. You get to do the weird stuff after a while, and that’s where the fun comes in. If you really want to blow her mind, try suggesting pegging. She might not know what it is, but after you read this article, you will.

What Is Pegging?

Pegging is the same as your regular sex, only you assume the role of the woman. This switches things up in a big way, and if she’s kinky in any way or inclined to be dominant, then this will be right up her alley. Obviously she doesn’t have the equipment to do you, but strap-ons are easy to purchase at your local sex shop and nobody will think twice about it. Letting her on top will give her some power back in the bedroom, and submitting can be fun and exhilarating every once in a while. Bring it up to her next time you’re alone and chances are she may agree. If she does not, do not feel embarrassed, everyone has fetishes and they change from person to person; she may warm up to it in time.

Where Do You Get Supplies?

You don’t need much in the way of supplies, but everything can be purchased online or at your local sex shop. You need a strap-on for her, and you want to be there when she buys it so you make sure that she doesn’t get anything too big. Most strap-ons allow you to switch out the dildo, but if you’re just starting out being submissive then you want her to get something small. You have to build up your endurance, because anal sex may be a little uncomfortable at first. Since you two will be doing anal penetration, pick up some specially designed anal lube. Your ass doesn’t produce normal lubrication, so going in will be dry unless you take precautions to make sure it’s well lubed. The prostate in men is a very erogenous zone, so you are guaranteed to have a good time! Also be sure to use condoms even if you’re using a toy, it will help with the lube aspect and make it more comfortable for you.

Does This Make Me Less of a Man?

“This is not the wrong way, in fact this is pegging”

No, pegging does not make you less of a man. There is nothing to be ashamed about when it comes to being submissive, a lot of men prefer it. It’s fun to let your girlfriend play around and take the lead every once in a while, and she’ll love getting to boss you around for once. If you two are adventurous and both of you are up for it, pegging is a guaranteed way to spice up your sex life through reversed roles and unexpected pleasure. Who knows, it may become a more frequent part of your love life!