Starting a Threesome with a Friend
Picture this: you’re a single, unattached guy. You have got an attractive female friend who’s also single and unattached and you want to get her in the sack for a long time, but you don’t want commitment. You may have even fantasized about having a threesome with her and another woman. She’s started showing signs that she’s attracted to you and you think a hook-up is possible. Why not take it to the next step?
Start Talking
Obviously a threesome isn’t going to happen without her consent. It probably won’t happen until she’s slept with you earlier. If you read her signals correctly and managed to score a hook-up, you’re already part way there. Sex can be a great icebreaker, even between existing friends. With all the awkward stuff out of the way, you can talk to her about your fantasies and desires that include her. Invite her to share her own. Once she’s comfortable with the topics, you can expand and invite her to share in even more exciting, adventurous sexual experiences.
Choose Wisely
So you’ve managed to convince a friend to join you in a threesome. Now comes the hardest part, choosing the third party. Maybe you’ve both got a certain someone in mind. If that’s the case, it’s a good idea to talk about the candidates. She’s probably not going to want to get into bed with you and your ex girlfriend (if you’re a true player). Her preference might be that you find a perfect stranger to join you in bed, and let’s be honest, sex with strangers and no strings attached sounds pretty good. Remember that this threesome isn’t going to happen if she doesn’t like the third member, so try to work with her to find someone she’s comfortable having a sexual encounter with.
Libations for Everyone
Some people might be able to jump right into a sexual situation with more than one person with no uncertainties. Most other people can’t do it without feeling awkward or nervous. Even if she’s agreed to your proposal for a threesome and you’ve both agreed on the third person, chances are that she’s going to be having second thoughts. Get in the mood for this amazing sexual encounter by having a few drinks either at a bar or some other location where the three of you can socialize for a while. This is a great way to break the ice and remove some of the tension, and it’s also a great way to size each other up and imagine what you’d like to do to each other.
Be Safe
When you’re in bed with two women, one of them a friend, it’s not a good time to start acting out your wildest sexual fantasies. Besides, you’re already experiencing one. Respect the boundaries of your partners, and if one of them is clearly uncomfortable with light bondage, don’t push for blindfolds and handcuffs. Be grateful for what you’re getting and bask in the simultaneous sexual gratification that comes from being in bed with two amazing women.